Being a Volunteer by Wendy Loh

Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ

Here is a contribution from Wendy Loh of MAP4 and MAP9, sharing her experiences during her recent experience in Vietnam.

MY FIRST EXPERIENCE AS A VOLUNTEER
HCMC, DMI, BETHANY COMMUNITY
14TH TO 26TH MARCH 2009

I was very curious about my friend who had been doing volunteer work overseas alone. Wasn’t she afraid of being kidnapped, butchered into pieces and cannot be found or simply went missing?
In a strange country and couldn’t speak their language, she even dare to venture out on her own, not afraid of getting lost.

I remembered I asked her several times to let me tag along to see for myself if I can be a volunteer too. I also prayed that if God wants me to go, He must let me have a cheap promo air ticket.
A day after I prayed, there was a big star that covered the whole page of Today’s paper offering cheap promo air tickets by Jetstar for Citibank credit card members only for two days. It was in late October 2008. My friend happened to be a Citibank credit card holder, agreed to let me join her and also helped me to book my air ticket online which cost S$159 inclusive of all taxes and fees. My friend bought her ticket much earlier and she paid S$175.

So God answered my first prayer.

A month later, my friend told me she couldn’t go with me to HCM cos she had to look after a relative who met an accident and was seriously injured. That meant I had to go alone to a strange country which I never did my whole life. Fear overcame me instantly and I felt trapped. So, I asked God is this the way you want to help me overcome my fear? A bit too harsh, isn’t it? From then on, every mass I attended, I told God I am really scared, and I kept asking him “Are you sure you want me to go?”

I am not a TV person. One weekday morning, I happened to switch on the TV to watch news from Channel Newsasia, but it wasn’t time for news, it was a travelogue about Asian countries and that day its focus was on “Vietnam” and their popular “Beef Noodle”. Maybe it was just a coincidence.

A few days later, almost 12midnight, I couldn’t fall asleep, so I turned on the TV Ch8 hopefully some boring show will make me sleep. It was a Taiwanese programme about Vietnam and its popular coffee. Oh no! Vietnam again!
I was actually worried whether I can adapt to Vietnamese food. Now, the Beef Noodles and Coffee are my favourites. Is God trying to tell me “Don’t worry about what to eat?”

Last Christmas Day mass at St Anthony, Fr Terence asked at the end of his homily, “What’s the one thing you want to give to Jesus?” I answered from my heart, “Myself.” After receiving the Holy Communion, I knelt down and prayed, “Lord, wherever you want me to go, I will go. Just show me the way and guide me.” Immediately I couldn’t hear the voices of the Children Choir that sang the communion hymn in English but voices of foreign language, not sure it was Thai or Vietnamese. In my heart, I said, “Wow! God, you are really fast! You scared me!”

So, my second prayer answered.

Another Sunday mass, I told God I am still very doubtful if I am called, whether had He made a mistake as I am not sure of myself if I can be a good volunteer and many other negative thoughts in my head. In one of the hymns, this sentence “Believe and follow me” caught my eyes and I said, “OK, OK, God, I believe you, I will go.”

God had answered me a third time and from then on, I doubted Him no more. I moved on and focused on what to teach. Not sure of their standard of English, I decided to teach them Mother Mary hymns. I was then busy sourcing for all the MM hymns, zapped and put them neatly into plastic folders.

Mass offerings to help the Mother Mary church in Vietnam kept pouring in from those people whom I met in church everyday.
To pray for one with lung cancer, one with brain tumor, a few jobless, one with suspected breast cancer and liver failure, and a few for family’s peace and unity etc. Small donations also came in and one of them was from a man whom I have not met, a non-Christian. He learnt from my friend about me and he offered US$100 to any convent that took me in. All these were tasks I had to fulfill.

My departure date was on 14March. On 13March, I went to St Joseph, Victoria, to pray for a safe journey. At the entrance, a lady caught hold of my hand and said, “You are the right one.”
I asked what was wrong, she just gave me a blue vest and a number one tag and told me to move to the front pew. I answered Ok but my head was full of doubts. Later I learnt from the other ladies that I had to carry Our Lady of Fatima statue for the procession. Immediately I asked God, “Why me? Are you sure I can carry the heavy statue? Please help me, give me strength to go through it.”

Mass ended, procession was about to start, one man ordered Group One to step out and get ready. My first instinct was to hide behind the two in front. When the statue was brought out, the man commanded us to go “about turn”. Oh no! I was right in front, I felt my face blushed for fear of people laughing at me. The Statue was really heavy but somehow I finished the walk.

The question “Why me?” kept ringing in my head but I couldn’t find the answer.
The first thing I asked when I met the nuns was the whereabout of the popular MM church. They kept telling me that it is too far away, sounded to me it is impossible to go there. All the way from the airport to the convent, I asked them several times about the MM church. They tried to show me other catholic churches but I wasn’t interested. They didn’t know I had a mission to fulfill.

Settled into my room, I explained to the two nuns why I needed to go the MM church. One nun told me it cost US$150 to get there by air and the flight is about 1 1/2hr and that they were not free to accompany me there. She suggested that I can put all my friends’ mass offerings at a nearby church. I told her honestly I can’t afford US$150 but I will pray about it, if it is God’s will, I will be at the MM church.

Next day, No.1 nun, Sr Agathe Men, came back from Hanoi and heard about my intention to visit Our Lady of La Vang church (the MM church that I mentioned) in Hue.

Next morning, Sr A Men told me the good news that she will pay for my air ticket to La Vang. She said I should not be stopped from going but I had to fly alone as they were busy and had their own duties to do. I felt very loved that God answered my prayer again. I kept thanking God from my heart.

Later in the afternoon, she said that Mother Nun from USA might be able to fly with me if she can catch a flight to HCM. I said Ok.

At dinner time, Sr A Men apologized that Mother Nun couldn’t get a flight to HCM, so I had to fly alone and there will be a young nun to pick me from Hue’s airport. I said it was fine with me.

On that very day, Mother Nun got her ticket and she met me at HCM and took the same flight with me to Hue. Mother Nun was like a VIP and every nuns were so excited to meet her. I didn’t know her and wasn’t anxious about her but I got to fly with her and seated beside her in business class which she was booked, big and spacious and right to front of the aircraft. Wow! My first time in Business Class seat! Thank God for all good things come!

At the Mother House in Hue, the whole community of nuns were waiting anxiously to welcome Mother Nun with a big bouquet of flowers and songs of joy in Vietnamese which I couldn’t comprehend.
Arriving with Mother Nun, I was welcomed in such a grand manner at the same time. Mother Nun did not leave me out, she made sure I was with her all the time, to walk with her along the paved aisle to the hall where all the nuns were gathered as audience.

At the end of her homecoming speech, Mother Nun introduced me to all the nuns & they welcomed me with their loud applause. They were so happy, excited and noisy bunch of nuns. As usual, I just smiled and said Hello and Thank you to all of them and quickly passed back the microphone to Mother Nun.

Next morning, a young nun was assigned to accompany me to Mother Mary shrine. To my surprise, a Vietnamese priest also wanted to bring his old cousin and her daughter from USA to the Mother Mary shrine. Another Singaporean volunteer, Jackie, was attached to Mother House for two months and coincidentally, we were booked on the same flight back to Singapore. Thank God, I wasn’t alone, it was a big crowd and a spiritual director………… God’s plan and not our plan!

Once at the shrine, I knelt down and said, “MM, here I come with all the prayers of my bros & sis-in-Christ. Please answer them.” I offloaded all the mass intentions and with the help of the young nun who translated them into Vietnamese to the priest. All the masses offered were for Annunciation Day. The priest celebrated mass at the shrine for all of us. Jackie and the others also offered masses at the same time. Whew! Mission completed!



Back to the first day at Bethany Community, Saturday 14th March 2009.
It was my first time I went to a foreign country all alone, not knowing exactly where my accommodation will be, no contact number or contact person of that place that I can check for more details. It was mainly based on trust. A close friend of mine thought I was crazy to risk myself. All I knew was that there will be a nun to fetch me from the airport. I told my friend that A NUN is good enough for me to put my total trust that I will be in good hands.
At HCM airport, I thought I could easily spot my name at the arrival hall but no, there were so many names that I had to scrutinized every single name before I could find mine, held up obviously by two nuns. What made me trust them was simply they are nuns and we belonged to the same God.

At the community, I was introduced to all the nuns, young or old, sick or bed-ridden. My first meal was lunch. All the young nuns helped to set up all the tables for lunch. 11.30am sharp, all gathered together to say their prayers before meal. A young nun was assigned to serve at our table like a waitress in a restaurant. I felt bad and I asked Sr Teresia Yen why made the young nun do all these, why not let her have her meal and I was there to serve and not to be served; in Singapore, this is child abuse. Sr Yen laughed and said that they are training the young nuns to serve, respect and take care of their parents when they go home and also to be able to survive in the service industry should they decided to go out to the world to make a living.

Dinner was at 6.30pm sharp. All were very punctual. So many of them and they can make it for dinner together. My family of four, hardly had a meal together in a week. The nuns are equally busy with morning prayers and mass, 45mins motorcycle ride to school and 45mins back to the community, house chores, school homework, evening prayers, hymns and Readings practices for mass everyday and Sunday.

First evening after dinner, I was put in front of all the nuns to talk about myself, my family and my country. I was very scared and my heart was beating very fast but not as bad as the night before when I had to face such a big crowd carrying the Lady Fatima statue. MM prepared me for this evening?

Second day was Sunday. Praise the Lord! After I had my morning bath, water and electricity were shut down. I had only half a pail of water left, not enough for the whole day. Sr T Yen felt so sorry but I said it was fine for me to learn to live without.

Subsequent days, I shared my experiences with Sr A Men and Sr T Yen as and when something reminded me of that certain event. Both liked my sharings and they asked me to share with the young nuns to strengthen their faith. I did for one solid hour without a script and Sr T Yen was my translator. I wouldn’t dare to do it in Singapore.

Every day, I was assigned with three classes. Morning class was for the older nuns, afternoon class was for nuns about to take their final vow and evening class was for the youngest batch of nuns. I taught them three MM hymns and to recite Rosary and the Order of Mass in English.

My last Sunday mass there, they invited an Italian priest to celebrate mass in English. At the end of the mass, the priest commented that the nuns did very well and that they sang beautifully.

After mass, four young nuns were assigned to escort me to HCMC to do a last minute shopping. I suggested to take bus out of curiosity. The bus has a conductor collecting bus-fare and punch a hole in the tickets like what we had many years ago in Singapore.

As the weather was terribly hot, I invited them to KFC for a drink. My Gosh! They didn’t know what is KFC selling. So, I treated them to the chickens and the drinks.

On the last evening, we had a celebration. I was served their self made grape wine which was very sweet. The young nuns performed dances gracefully which was choreographed by one of the nuns. They also presented me with a bouquet of flowers and a box of gifts to show their appreciation. I told them I had done nothing much to deserved all these.

At the end of the trip, I thanked God for helping me to overcome my fear and for showing me a place where I can be of help to others and the love from all the nuns that I didn’t expect to receive. I thought I was there to give whatever I can but in the end, I received more than I could give. Amen!


WENDY LOH
MAP4 & MAP9

MAG Melaka Day trip May 2009

Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ


Click here for photos taken during our recent day trip to Melaka on May 18.
There were about 30 of us, a mix of MAG participants and from Holy Cross.

We were blessed with wonderful weather, smooth immigration clearing upon entering and returning from Melaka.

Vinood, our Indian driver from Luxury tours ensured we had a smooth and safe drive, while Eileen Tan our Malaysian guide, saw to our head knowledge of history of Melaka and guided us through not only the history but the food, culture and religions in Melaka.

Aaron from the core MAG team led us in prayer at the start of the journey. During our drive up, after Eileen's briefing on the history of Melaka. Kirsten and Aaron quizzed us. Many of us were rewarded with snacks which we were snacking till we stopped for lunch!

We were treated to a Nyonya lunch and then we started our tour of Melaka, first stop being Jonkers and after that Aformosa where we had a choice of shopping or visiting St Paul's church. We being a democratic group, we split - a group went shopping and the coolness of airconditioning, while others braved the heat to climb the 30 odd steps to St Paul's church to view the temporary gravesite of St Francis.

We ended our trip by having a delicious Chinese dinner.

It was a good day for all us - made new friends, renewed old friendships, had fun - eating, shopping, sight seeing and fellowship.


God bless, Karen

Christmas 2008

Every Christmas and New Year, MAG celebrates the 9am mass together with the wonderful residence of St Joseph's Home in Jurong. We get there around 8am in the morning, to greet and wheel those who would like to attend mass into the chapel. It is an indescribable feeling you get when you attend a mass like this during Christmas...if I would dare try, I would say it gives you a deeper appreciation of the meaning of Christmas, you feel a sense of peace and happiness.

Update from China

This is a summary of what our missionary in China is witnessing. Unfortunately we could not post the recordings of the mass

World Refugee Day 2008

Dear MAG members,

Here's my personal invitation to you to join me in this WRD Mass 2008 on 25 Jun at Church of Christ the King. Do bring along your friends & family members to this celebration.

Additional activity 1 - St Ignatius, 14 & 15 Jun. All Masses.
JRS is setting up an exhibition with information updates regarding refugee/IDP situations the various countries we work with. We are also selling handicrafts made by East Timorese IDPs & Burmese refugees in Malaysia. A few table runners & placemats sets from a Shan camp in North Thailand too.
There are also sales of cupcakes & cookies, mostly handmade by ex-CJC students, who visited refugee camps in Thailand & India.

Proceeds and donations for this weekend will go to Food-drop project in Malaysia - giving refugees a good meal on WRD! We are fielding a team of volunteers to visit Burmese refugees in the city and suburban areas of KL. (Detention centres, jungles, convalescence home for refugees, refugee communities and schools)

Additional activity 2 - Christ the King, 21 & 22 Jun. All Masses.
Similar events as per Activity 1, but handicrafts are all from Shan refugees of North Thailand. Mainly shawls & some bed runners.
I hope that you can pass this on to your contacts who may be keen in joining the events.
See you!

Thanks, God bless,

Dawn

Early Singapore Church History

Dear participants of MOP/MAP,

Shalom! It's been several months' since we last met for Christmas party 2007, where we announced of MAG's plan to have faith & social activities on a once-in-4month basis. In May 2008, we are pleased to bring to you an outing event especially tailored for all members of Mission Awareness Group.

Pope Benedict XVI has declared June 2008 to June 2009 as Year of St. Paul to mark the 2000th anniversary of the Apostle's birth. He was a great missionary, who now inspired our core team to conduct research on the first missionaries in Singapore. "Who was the first priest who came to Singapore?", "Which is the first catholic church?", "How did the works of the missionaries affect the society then?"... Come, see and learn:-

Event : Early Singapore Church History
Date : Sunday, 18 May 2008
Time : 1pm to 9pm
Cost : S$15/- per person, includes dinner

Start point: Church of Sts Peter & Paul (225A Queen Street, S188551)
End point: Upper Bukit Timah (restaurant near St Joseph's church)

Program
1pm Attendance Registration at Church of Sts Peter & Paul

Talk by FR RENÉ NICOLAS MEP
FATHER RENÉ NICOLAS is highly respected as a church historian, who has been serving the catholic community in Singapore since his ordination in 1956. He collaborated with Mr E. Wijeysingha on the book, "Going Forth… The Catholic Church in Singapore 1819-2004".

Visit to several churches
- with commentaries

5.30pm Mass at Church of St Joseph (Bukit Timah)

6.30pm Proceed to dinner venue (TBA)

This is an opportunity not to be missed! To sign up, please email or call Dawn dawn2393@gmail.com / 98256621.

Drivers, best to leave your cars at home : )

Thank you, and I wait to hear from all of you. God bless!

Christmas at St Joseph's Home

Dear Brother and Sister in Christ,

Shalom. Peace be with you. Hope all of you had a very fruitful Advent Preparation.

Some of you might have been wondering..... is MAG going to St Jospeh Home this year?
Surely!!! It's our yearly festive service to St Joseph Home and also an opportunity to meet up.

Details are as follows :

Date: 25 December 2007 and 1 January 2008
Venue: St Joseph Home
Address: 921 Jurong Road

Bus: 157 from Boon Lay or Toa Payoh
Time: mass at 9am... (please come about 8.15am to help the nurses wheel residents into the chapel)

By the way, we are serving mass and after mass we will spend some time interacting with the residents and giving them gifts.

We need people who will be able to assist in the following :

Choir: who?? - - - ALL of you
Musician: WHO?? Calling you!!!!! (let me know if you would like to help with providing music)
Animator: WhO??? Volunteer needed
Readers: wHo?? Calling you!!! (i need 3 readers. - 1st, 2nd reading and general intercession)
Psalmist: whO? Volunteer needed

I would need help for the above roles... please let me know in what area and for Christmas or New Year or both!!

Let's share this Christmas Joy with our brothers and sisters at the home this year and make a different to their lives as well as ours.

sister-in-Christ
Angeline